tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4789353902745833290.post3681026818205191451..comments2023-08-23T23:37:26.256+08:00Comments on Random Rants of a Starter Mom: Signpostsvickihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16969025446998866306noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4789353902745833290.post-85016045047595307472008-10-05T22:50:00.000+08:002008-10-05T22:50:00.000+08:00Gosh. Haha. I'll just blog about it then. One p...Gosh. Haha. I'll just blog about it then. One paragraph. :-Pyankahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05091343982535921191noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4789353902745833290.post-44836871157215462232008-10-05T21:30:00.000+08:002008-10-05T21:30:00.000+08:00Great! As long as it's not suuuuuuuuuuuper long. ...Great! As long as it's not suuuuuuuuuuuper long. no time! waaaaaahhh! hehehehehe.vickihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16969025446998866306noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4789353902745833290.post-59371265209505201012008-10-03T21:13:00.000+08:002008-10-03T21:13:00.000+08:00You're right about the decreased closeness. :-( I...You're right about the decreased closeness. :-( <BR/><BR/>I did a study on this for my Dev Psych class. I'll try to see if I still have a copy. It really helped me think through stuff.yankahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05091343982535921191noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4789353902745833290.post-14906684751954553822008-10-03T16:56:00.000+08:002008-10-03T16:56:00.000+08:00Amazing! Am I that transparent? You aren't the fi...Amazing! Am I that transparent? You aren't the first one who has made that observation (the mistake part). I guess I have to think about that more. As for my kids, I do realize that I will make mistakes. I just don't want a lack of closeness to be one of them. Although, I have to admit, I don't know if a career will necessarily result in that.vickihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16969025446998866306noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4789353902745833290.post-28097928371302358432008-10-02T21:59:00.000+08:002008-10-02T21:59:00.000+08:00I think you know there are no formulas. :-) A sign...I think you know there are no formulas. :-) A signpost for one woman may not work for another woman. <BR/><BR/>I might be wrong but it seems that part of the problem is your fear of making a mistake. But parenthood is full of inevitable missteps. It sounds mushy but if you know you love your kids and your kids know you love them, they will forgive your failures and later see that you were just trying your best. They might not realize it right away, but they will someday. You have to believe that or you'll go crazy.yankahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05091343982535921191noreply@blogger.com